To the men of Yale:

25 Jan

Have you got a question about life, love and women? Are you unsure of what to plan for your two year anniversary? Do you want to know how to approach a girl at Toad’s? Do you want to avoid offending the ex? Add a comment here and we’ll write a post just for you (you can also send us an email at


6 Responses to “To the men of Yale:”

  1. A January 25, 2012 at 10:51 PM #

    Do the BYWFYM ladies have any advice/predictions as to how long Yale girls usually take to part for good with their high school boyfriends? (Assuming the boyfriends attend a different school, of course).

  2. eli January 26, 2012 at 1:35 AM #

    Can you give some advice on when a girl is interested and the signs she gives showing her level of interest – relationship v friendship v hookup? I am a pretty shy guy who has never had a gf and every hookup has been girl initiated. When to make a move would be helpful too.

    • By Yale Women for Yale Men January 27, 2012 at 3:57 PM #

      Hi eli,

      We’re currently working on a couple of posts in response to your question. We’ll have them up as soon as we can!


  3. Confused January 26, 2012 at 6:02 PM #

    Ladies, I have a dilemma and have gotten advice from my guy friends, but would love to hear an answer from a female’s point of view. There’s this girl that I really like and can see myself in a relationship with, but I don’t know if I can ask her. This is because she just broke up with her boyfriend and I also hooked up with her twin sister last year.

    How soon before I can try and approach her or will it always be too awkward?

  4. Yalie February 5, 2012 at 11:55 AM #

    BYWFYM, how do I know if a girl is interested in a hookup? How do I get a girl to come back to my suite with me, from Toad’s or anywhere else?

  5. Javier April 17, 2014 at 12:04 PM #

    How would you go about convincing a girl who just left a long relationship of 5yrs. She has a baby. While she was pregnant her boyfriend wasn’t there most of the time, he cheated on her, and was a bit of a drunk. Its been 5 months since they broke up, but some how she still has this “love” and care for the guy that won’t let her comfortably move on. Such a guy shouldn’t deserve to be spit in his direction in my opinion. Thanks in advance.

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